
We believe that pre-need funeral
arrangements allow people to think
through the steps that need to be taken when death occurs. It gives people an
opportunity to acquaint themselves with the options that are available and to
make intelligent choices that can be agreed upon between spouses, children, and
singles and their executors. Preneed arrangements do not necessarily mean
prepayment but rather to find out what costs are involved and make allowance for
those costs.
As death is an unwelcome
visitor that comes indiscriminately, it is good to be able to deal with the fact
of death if it took place today or many years in the future.
What is most important in
these sensitive matters is to have an understanding of what is required by
statute and custom and match that with what is desired and meaningful for the
family. This requires thoughtful reflection. One of the important aspects to
remember in these arrangements is that there is a pecking order of importance
beginning with the spouse, oldest child, and executor, etc.
The executor is the one
that we select in our will to act in our place at the time of our death. We give
to this person all the rights and responsibilities we ourselves would have and
expect that they will both understand our wishes and carry them out. We realize
that circumstances could change dramatically and that this might impact on
preneed understandings but we expect that the executor will always act in our
best interests. All others will want to conform to the wishes of those mentioned
above in the normal course of events.